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Meet member WeiYanMei-age 44. She is a real Chinese member of CLM and active at the time of posting.

Don't Be Lazy.   Read This Stuff!   Your Future Happiness May Depend On It. 

A World Gone Mad!  In a western world gone mad with ​divorce on a whim, multiple relationships as the standard, multiple sex partners as the norm and the never ending social battlecry "What's in it for me?", China women are a world apart. A Chinese woman puts a premium on family and wants to settle for life with one true love.  She has traditional lifetime relationship values. Say goodbye to the madness!

Love is for Life!  If you're looking for a lady who will always be there for you, whose hand you can hold into your senior years, who will always take care of you and want you to take care of her, then you should be looking for a woman of China. These are women who still think "divorce" is a dirty word, and is a source of shame, as opposed to a badge of honor.  She's in it for the long haul, not a ride around the block.

Lasting Beauty!  Another, even better, reason to look at the these beautiful ladies for your next relationship, is because they take great pride in looking their best throughout life. They have not decided that obesity is a thing of beauty and a point of pride. Generally Chinese ladies keep themselves trim, well dressed, in good shape and looking at least 10 years younger than their age, often much more than that.

They're Looking for You!  Women of China are elegant, graceful, charming, vibrant and fun. They love to laugh and are incredibly attractive at a far higher rate per capita than in any other country. But at the same time, a China woman who has not married by the time she reaches the ripe old age of 28, or has opted to follow a successful career before marrying, or is divorced at any age, is off the marriage market in China. She might as well be a leper to Chinese men. But wait, suddenly she realizes that there's a whole breed of men out there in the world who will love her at her age, with her career, even if she's divorced, and will treat her with respect and dignity, as an equal partner, not as someone subservient. Yes, she's found you, and she wants you!​   The most beautiful women in the world are actively seeking Western men!

Now that your mind and heart are focused on dating Chinese women, what do you do next?

That's too simple, you join CLM - the home of trusted online Chinese dating!​

Why You Should Date Chinese Women on ChinaLoveMatch.net

  • ​Unlike most Chinese dating sites, we never post fake members & never send fake messages. Never!
  • We hate scammers and protect you from them through Scammer Prison & Scammer Alerts!  When you get your first Scammer Alert you will instantly realize what a valuable service this is. We also provide IP checking, a great security feature, and we were the first to do so.
  • Our blogs & forum allow members to assist each other in avoiding cross-cultural misunderstandings! Dating Chinese women is easier on CLM.
  • We offer top quality service in which you can seek help with any concerns and make suggestions.
  • Our features and functions are among the best there are, with more to come all the time.  We were first to offer instant translation. We love to receive and act on member suggestions for website innovations.
  • On CLM you really are a member, not a number - part of a dating community where people care!
  • Our Chinese women love us, because we take care of them, so we attract a better class of women. 
  •                            You'll love our CLM ladies, and you'll love CLM too!
Enjoy Safe and Secure Online Chinese Dating on ChinaLoveMatch.net.

Safe and Secure Chinese Dating

Recent Testimonials About CLM 

I just have to say what a great dating site. I have been on others but I only wish I found this one first. Great! Thanks again.   -  May 19, 2014

CLM Testimonial 1 cubboardman12
  CLM Member

I really have enjoyed ChinaLoveMatch.net and have found the woman of my dreams... I have this site to thank for my future wife.                                      - May 11, 2014

CLM Testimonial 3 TwittyG
   CLM Member

You are wonderful! Your service is the best ever. I am very grateful for your follow-up.                        - May 11, 2014

CLM Testimonial 2    BJW
   CLM Member

The Three Types of Dating Sites in the Chinese or Asian Niches

1. Free Sites: these sites do not charge fees for communicating with other members at all, and are generally living proof that you always get what you pay for. They have very limited functions and scammers run absolutely free and unhindered on them. Since they make their money from advertising on site, the more members the better. Even scammers will click an ad once in a while.

Very few of these sites have video chat, so it is almost impossible to protect yourself from scammers without going through a great deal of BS. For every real woman you will meet on a free site you will meet dozens who are either not real and are there to scam you, or are real but have a hidden agenda, such as getting you to pay for cybersex. CLM gets a great number of its members from free sites, who are tired of wasting their time and of the total lack of security on these sites.

2. Pay by Transaction Sites: these are online dating sites that charge a fee for every message you receive and read and every message you send. They will often have translators involved and force you to pay for translations of every message. If you are able to chat with the woman you're interested in you will pay by the minute and be chaperoned by a translator you pay for. Members are restricted from exchanging any private contact details and can only communicate using the site's always extremely expensive messaging or chat systems.

These sites are invariably scamming their own male members, and frequently the few real women members as well. CLM gets countless members from these sites who have always spent from hundreds to many thousands of dollars without meeting a single real Chinese or Asian woman. These sites are all clear cases of never getting what you pay for!

3. Pay One Fee for Open Communication Sites: ChinaLoveMatch.net is one of these sites, and whether you choose us or another such site, they are the only sites you should bother with. With these sites there is a higher likelihood that the person you're dealing with is a real person, and on all but the very worst of these sites there is a feature that allows you to make sure that you are at least communicating with the person in his/her profile photos, the video chat. Never stay on a dating site that doesn't allow you to communicate freely and doesn't include video chat as part of the package.

Having said that these are the better sites, it remains true that most of them are also not practicing any form of scammer control​, and many of them are rumored to also be planting fake members who pretend to be interested in you and write numerous messages in order to tease you into upgrading. It is also true that member support and service is often threadbare or non-existent on these sites. CLM is the only site we know of with features like Scammer Prison and Scammer Alerts to protect all members, and IP Checking for the benefit of Gold members.  Our service is highly responsive and praised by members.

Okay. I don't need to read anymore.

I'm in. I want to try dating real Chinese women!

Now Let's Talk About Pricing on Chinese Dating Sites...

AsianDate

Pay per Transaction

No Private Contact

Rumored Scam Site

  • No Monthly Fee
  • Messages - $6 each
  • CamShare - $6 / Min
  • Phone - $6 / min

$1152 / month

Loaded with Fake Members

ChnLove

Pay per Transaction

No Private Contact

Rumored Scam Site

  • No Monthly Fee
  • Messages - $6 each
  • Type Chat - $0.60 / min
  • Phone - $6 / min

$1116 / month

Loaded with Fake Members

ChinaLoveMatch

Pay by the Month.

Private Contact Allowed

Excellent Scammer Control

  • Reasonable Monthly Fee
  • Messages Included, with Instant Translation.
  • Video Chat Included and Standard Members CAN initiate contact.
  • Great Responsive Service

$34.95 / month

Don't Upgrade Until You Are 100% Comfortable!

ChinaLoveCupid

Pay by the Month

Private Contact Allowed

Many Scammers Onsite

  • Reasonable Monthly Fee
  • Messages Included
  • Video Chat Included but Standard members CANNOT initiate contact.
  • Non-responsive Service

$34.95 / month

Rumors of Fake Members 

ChineseFriendFinder

Pay by the Month

Private Contact Allowed

Overrun by Scammers

  • Excessive Monthly Fee
  • Messages Included
  • Video Intros, No Chat
  • Non-responsive Service

$52.85 / month

No Service - High fees

Assumptions: In the pricing tables above the following assumptions are made in price estimates:

AsianDate.com (formerly AsianBeauties.com): in a month you message 4 women 10 times each & receive 10 messages back from each one. You video chat using CamShare with each woman 3 times for 10 minutes each Video chat.​ You purchase each woman 1 virtual gift. You will purchase 160 credit packages ($0.60 per credit). This is a very moderate estimate.

Chnlove.com: in each month you message 4 women 10 times each and receive 10 messages from each one. You instant chat (typing, no video) with each woman 3 times for 30 minutes (typing takes longer to communicate than talking). You phone each woman 1 time for 10 minutes. You purchase 3 private contact details from 1 woman. ​This is also a very moderate estimate.​

ChinaLoveCupid.com (formerly ChineseLoveLinks.com): you will be smart and not scrimp on videochat on a site where scammers abound. Many Chinese women have been scammed on this site, so suspicions run wild, ​which can seriously affect the enjoyability of the site.  Another disappointment is that Standard members do not appear to be able to initiate chat or video chat with you even though you've upgraded.

ChineseFriendFinder.com: you will want all the features that come with the other two monthly fee sites such as Standard members being able to contact you, and for having other members be able to see you are Gold. You will not be happy to discover that Videochat, a primary safety feature, is not available in spite of their much higher monthly fees and the out of control number of scammers on the site.

ChinaLoveMatch.net: ​we're assuming that once you spend some time in CLM, realize how real our Chinese women are, get to know the blogs and forum, see how secure you feel from scammers, and come to feel the community spirit on the site, you'll never think about joining any other site.  Join CLM and find out!

Meet Isabella520, Age 24 and Silmstand, Age 44, two active Chinese women members on CLM.

Meet Isabella520, Age 24 and Silmstand, Age 44, two active Chinese women members on CLM.

Your Future is Waiting for You on CLM

Thank you, for the Scammer alert. I never did respond to her. I Love this site!!!!! Very very good site. I have made many friends here, and will keep looking for my soulmate. I am sure she is here. Thanks so much.  - May 24, 2014

A Happy ChinaLoveMatch.net member. Tyr606
CLM Member
Meet lj0628, an active member of CLM.

Meet lj0628 - Age32, a real Chinese member of CLM active at the time of posting

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